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		<title>I let peer pressure get to me</title>
		<link>http://pickles.gollapudi.org/2009/08/i-let-peer-pressure-get-to-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 22:35:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vaishnavi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A bunch of guys at work challenged me if I could handle “Habanero “sauce.  I am used to eating extreme versions of Karam. “Hot” like its hard to imagine. Well, all these years I have never really had to prove to anybody that I could handle the spice. First of all, eating hot and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A bunch of guys at work challenged me if I could handle “Habanero “sauce.  I am used to eating extreme versions of Karam. “Hot” like its hard to imagine. Well, all these years I have never really had to prove to anybody that I could handle the spice. First of all, eating hot and spicy food is not good for health! Period! This is something I am not so proud of too. I want to like and eat healthy. I have always played defensive saying “no, I don’t eat that spicy food” every time people at home complained about my bad food habits!</p>
<p>Plates turned for once. Over a conversation during lunch at work, the room filled with talks about “who can handle spicy food”. And somehow the conversation was dominated by people who could handle spice and they felt superior! And I casually mentioned too that I have inclination to spice. Not in a “showing-off” style but mentioned I generally like spice and don’t prefer bland food. That is when my male co-workers (Male and Female should be classified in different species-well that calls for a different blog altogether!) to my surprise got all competitive and challenged me if I could eat the greatly feared “Habanero Sauce”.  I retorted casually, “Well I have never tried it but would love to.” End of the chapter.</p>
<p>The next day came and guess what? I was welcomed into the lunch room with sneers and jeers from my peers!  They held the grail filled with the only and only…oh dare I utter the word…The formidable- “Habanero sauce”!</p>
<p>I do have to admit, I did feel nervous with eyes gawking over me…eyes that begged me to fail…eyes that longed me see me cripple down suffering the burn from the spice! Well, one of the guys was a little sympathetic and offered rice to eat it with sauce (Glad he was!). I mixed it with mixed feelings and closed my eyes and took a deep breath and reluctantly ate it. Guess what! It was not bad as I expected. On the contrary, It was home calling! It was awesome!!! Wasn’t I glad they made me eat it! It was super hot super spicy! I ate some more and left the room feeling pleased and soaked in pride. The guys looked shocked in disbelief that I liked it. You think they accepted my prowess in the field of karam? No way, its ‘guys’ we are talking about- they accused me of eating it just to prove my point. But do I care, Nope.  I felt victorious!</p>
<p>Long forgotten, after a couple of hours, all of a sudden I felt a pang of pain in my abdomen. It deepened and the pain consumed me. I knew what caused it &#8211; of course the notorious “Habanero” sauce! As my head awakened to that very fact my worry of pain turned to shame.  What is wrong with me? Why did I have to eat more of the sauce? Though I got to see their lovely expressions of shock when I tasted it, it is definitely not worth the pain in my tummy! I let the pressure get to me. I am not a teenager. I am in my mid 20s and nothing stopped me from feeling competitive to prove my point. In a weird sense all of a sudden I understood why kids get caught in alcohols &amp; drugs succumbing to pressure.</p>
<p>Moral Of the story:</p>
<p>3.3 Oz of Habanero Sauce-$1.19</p>
<p>Look of Shock on coworker’s faces &#8211; Cost of a severe tummy-ache</p>
<p>Lesson learnt- Priceless!</p>
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		<title>Wearing Seinfeld&#8217;s hat</title>
		<link>http://pickles.gollapudi.org/2009/06/wearing-sienfelds-hat/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 06:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vaishnavi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my friends called me after a long time. He had messed up his love life. Though I was honored to be an &#8220;aunt agony&#8221; back in my school days,  I am not very patient with people who refuse to use their brains to clean up their mess anymore. Anyways, I felt responsible for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my friends called me after a long time. He had messed up his love life. Though I was honored to be an &#8220;aunt agony&#8221; back in my school days,  I am not very patient with people who refuse to use their brains to clean up their mess anymore. Anyways, I felt responsible for my past reputation and honestly tried to sound very sympathetic.</p>
<p>Well, let me give you the background picture. I had not heard from this guy for months now. I have always supported him through all his mish-mash of his life. He always came to came to me to cry about something or the other.</p>
<p>So coming back to the story, I tried to do justice to my public image and lent my shoulder to cry on as usual. We did have several sessions and one day when he felt better and things were returning to normal in his life he calls me to say, &#8220;Vaish, I can&#8217;t thank you enough.&#8221;</p>
<p>Sigh!!! Another &#8220;I can&#8217;t thank you enough&#8230;&#8221;line in my life.</p>
<p>Seriously, why cant people thank you enough? Why do people think that just by saying &#8220;I can&#8217;t thank you enough that they have thanked you enough? Doesn&#8217;t &#8220;Thank You&#8221; weigh much more than &#8220;I can&#8217;t thank you enough&#8221;? If people feel indebted, they have to thank or atleast thank enough.  There is no word &#8220;can&#8217;t&#8221; in the dictionary , if you try hard I am sure you can thank enough. Its just sad how people give up just like that. Hah! &#8220;Can&#8217;t thank you enough!!!&#8221; Maybe some day it would be illegal to use the phrase, &#8220;I can&#8217;t thank you enough!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Addicted to Sulking</title>
		<link>http://pickles.gollapudi.org/2009/03/addicted-to-sulking/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 01:30:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vaishnavi</dc:creator>
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“Once upon a time..stories were real and dreams came true…”
I can’t help but be angry with a girl back in my college who asked me, “Why are you always smiling? What is there in your life that makes you so happy?”
I sure believe she jinxed my life.
I was surely a happy go lucky person couple [...]]]></description>
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<p>“Once upon a time..stories were real and dreams came true…”</p>
<p>I can’t help but be angry with a girl back in my college who asked me, “Why are you always smiling? What is there in your life that makes you so happy?”</p>
<p>I sure believe she jinxed my life.</p>
<p>I was surely a happy go lucky person couple of years back. I knew no worries. I was in love with myself and my world of possibilities. Well what am I now? I am still lucky, now its just perennially-grumpy and sad – go lucky person.</p>
<p>What makes me more sad is that inspite of everything being great and knowing that I am lucky, I am stubborn on being sad. Why can’t I be grateful and happy?</p>
<p>I guess I just miss being a kid. I miss my innocence. I am hating every bit of my 20s.</p>
<p>I woke up this morning feeling good. Enthusiastic and relatively energetic. I had an exciting morning at work, my co-workers complimented my dress, my husband sent a “love you” text message and yet I do have reasons to stay grumpy. I see my self becoming a quintessential whiner.</p>
<p>It began like this: One day, I was grumpy, The next day, I was grumpy about still being grumpy. And next, I got grumpier knowing I am adamant on being grumpy. And now, I feel sad and grumpy that I am not doing anything about it.  Honestly, I feel stuck in this vicious cycle.</p>
<p>The profound part of my head thinks that I am about to embark on a philosophical journey -  searching for inner peace…like Gautama Buddha. Feeling frustrated with life in spite of enjoying the comforts of life. The scientific part of my brain thinks that it might be my estrogen going haywire. The practical part of my brain thinks that I have just gone nuts and that I should move on and stop being a mope.</p>
<p>I hope today is the last day of my internal struggle.  Do I ever have to fight with myself again? I hope not.</p></div>
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		<title>Protected: Katha Kanchiki</title>
		<link>http://pickles.gollapudi.org/2008/10/katha-kanchiki/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 17:58:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vaishnavi</dc:creator>
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		<title>Entering the blog-zone</title>
		<link>http://pickles.gollapudi.org/2008/05/entering-the-blog-zone/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 19:30:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vaishnavi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Reason]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why does anyone want to blog? That is one question that I have been pondering over for around 6 years now. I have always been a creative person. After many years, I am finally comfortable saying this. Yes, I am a creative person. Being artistic always came naturally to me. I love to cook, I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why does anyone want to blog? That is one question that I have been pondering over for around 6 years now. I have always been a creative person. After many years, I am finally comfortable saying this. Yes, I am a creative person. Being artistic always came naturally to me. I love to cook, I love to draw and paint, I love to sing and dance, I love to dress up, I love to take pictures, I love to go to art museums and my most favorite one &#8211; I love to write. I love to express.  Eight years back I  was dating this techy guy (Now my husband!) who fell in love with my writing. One day he told me, &#8220;You should blog.&#8221; I maintained a diary and I used it as my medium of expression. I brushed his thought away saying, &#8220;Nah, I am a paper and pen person.&#8221;</p>
<p>Years rolled by and blogging grew enormously. I was bowled over seeing all the creativity, feelings, emotions, thoughts and ideas that people shared. What was overwhelming to me was that they were all so original. I understood why many wanted to blog. And I want to be a part of that. And I wanted it to be a part of me. I am ready to say good bye to paper and pen. Why not? Let me go green! <img src='http://pickles.gollapudi.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I welcome myself to blog-zone!</p>
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		<title>Jobless yet thoughtful&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://pickles.gollapudi.org/2008/04/jobless-yet-thoughtful/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 21:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vaishnavi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am sure everyone is intrigued by certain questions or certain things to which they go &#8220;huh?????&#8221;. Everyone consciously or sub consciously has this list of questions made up to which they are always searching answers for. My list has gone through several changes over years. Sometimes I do find answers and sometimes I just [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 100%;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">I am sure everyone is intrigued by certain questions or certain things to which they go &#8220;huh?????&#8221;. Everyone consciously or sub consciously has this list of questions made up to which they are always searching answers for. My list has gone through several changes over years. Sometimes I do find answers and sometimes I just forget! <img src='http://pickles.gollapudi.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Well, for now, mine is as follows.</p>
<p>* People from Poland Poles, people from Holland &#8220;Holes????&#8221;</p>
<p>*Irony when they say love is blind when lingerie is so popular!<br />
<span style="color: #000000;"></span></span></span><a onclick="return false;" tabindex="11" href="javascript:void(0)"></a><br />
<span style="font-size: 100%;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">*Fed Ex and UPS merge. I hope they call it &#8220;Fed Up&#8221;!!! He he he</p>
<p>*Its funny how only losers say &#8220;Its only a game&#8221;</p>
<p>*People learn to passionately swear only after they start driving! (Amazing connection there!)</p>
<p>*Totally unfair how sun lightens the hair and darkens the skin!:(</p>
<p>*Dearest Microsoft, Its damn annoying to click on &#8220;START&#8221; to stop Windows!!</p>
<p>*Hell with Noah!!! Damn You! Why did not not kill the last 2 mosquitoes??</p>
<p>*Okay fine, I am paranoid most of the time but then why??? Why do they call it a &#8220;terminal&#8221; at every airport!</p>
<p>*Brain cells die but the stupid fat cells live forever! (sob!!)</p>
<p>* What the hell is fry the onions till golden brown?? ( Thanks Soo, felt good reading your blog!!)</p>
<p>*&#8221;Apart&#8221;ments- Why??? the are never separate!</p>
<p>*When will they ever sell the liquids which we don&#8217;t have to &#8220;Shake well&#8221; before use???? I am getting tired of it!</p>
<p>Well last one, popular question yet an obvious wonder-&#8221;Why does Donald duck not wear pants yet wear a towel after his shower?!&#8221;</span></span></p>
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		<title>Ad-venturing into the dentist office</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 03:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vaishnavi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It won’t surprise me if your reaction to this (very valid and important) topic is &#8220;Yawn… what is so amusing about your trip to a dentist??&#8221; Well, a person who has ever been to the dentist for a filling would agree with me here.
A long anticipating wait, the embarrassment of being the one with the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 100%;">It won’t surprise me if your reaction to this (very valid and important) topic is &#8220;Yawn… what is so amusing about your trip to a dentist??&#8221; Well, a person who has ever been to the dentist for a filling would agree with me here.</span></p>
<p>A long anticipating wait, the embarrassment of being the one with the rotting tooth (especially if the dentist&#8217;s evil elf is a cute one!), the agony of opening your jaw forever (You wonder-has the time stopped???), your appeal for clemency (on the sight of tiny but powerful looking diabolic munitions), intimidating light glaring at your face) which you don&#8217;t understand why is enraged at you), gushing and drilling din… Sigh!!!!!!! The endless list! It is a frightening war you can&#8217;t escape. It is a battle between you and the persistent dentist!!!</p>
<p>The after-thoughts of the entire ordeal made me tumble upon one hell of a realization- Man! I am not surprised that it was the dentist who invented the electric chair!!!</p>
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		<title>Situation: EMERGENCY!!!!!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 03:02:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vaishnavi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Scene from ward at Hospital Turbulence:
“Talent Writing” is admitted in the ICU and is on the life support system “Hope Adivon”. Dr. Brain discusses the situation with one of her family members Heart De Vaish.
Heart De Vaish: You think she&#8217;ll make it???? (Sounding anxious)
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 100%;">Scene from ward at Hospital Turbulence:</p>
<p>“Talent Writing” is admitted in the ICU and is on the life support system “Hope Adivon”. Dr. Brain discusses the situation with one of her family members Heart De Vaish.</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish: You think she&#8217;ll make it???? (Sounding anxious)</p>
<p>Dr Brain: The condition is critical and nothing can be said at the moment (sounding serious and grim)</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish: What do you think is wrong with her Doctor??</p>
<p>Dr. Brain: Her ECG (Esoteric Creative Graph) shows weak hope rate. Till her body pumps its own “Faith” she will be on life support “Hope Adivon” which btw is multifunctional. It is analogous to her own “Faith”.</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish: Ok&#8230; But why is this happening doctor??? Never did we realize that she had issues. She was perfectly healthy till sometime back. (Sounding sad)</p>
<p>Dr. Brain: I am sorry to tell you this but she is a tension addict. She is in paralysis. This I suspect is because of the way she has abused time. And she is suffering from severe “lazyiitis”. The tests report has shown “idle mind and body” which we believe has made her “confidence” very low. This in turn has made her susceptible to different viruses, deadliest of the lot being “virus X”.</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish: Good Lord!!!!!!!! Doctor!!!!! Everything is in your hands now!!! Please help!!!</p>
<p>Dr. Brain: Well, “Hope Adivon” will for time being keep her alive and will also fight “virus X”. But end of the day, it’s her body that should be able to pump its own “Faith”. Let’s wait and see.</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish: How can I help her doctor????</p>
<p>Dr. Brain: Actually I can save her now, but to keep her alive, you have a big role to play. I recommend high doses of “optimism” and “prayer” daily for lifetime. And also please help her stay away from “jobless internet chatting”. This will control her “lazyiitis”</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish: Hey&#8230; I think she is waking up!!!!</p>
<p>Talent writing is seen battling her eyelids.</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish and Dr. Brain rush to her bedside.</p>
<p>Talent writing: “Mein kaun hoon????? Mein kahan hoon?????” (Whimpers)</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish (sounding a little relieved): Looks like she will survive!!! Sigh!!!!</p>
<p>Dr. Brain (looking relieved!): This is a miracle. Babe! I did my work, now things are in your hand!</p>
<p>Heart De Vaish holds talent writing hands and smiles lovingly.</p>
<p>CURTAINS FALL</span></p>
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